Jury Duty

I reported to Jury Duty for the first time ever (as in my life) a few weeks ago.  Somehow I’ve gotten really lucky and never started to get summoned until a few years ago.  Back then I had babies at home so I didn’t have to report.  Now that my kids are all in school I’m no longer exempt, and despite every effort to avoid Jury Duty (this was my THIRD postponement), I found myself at the court house bright and early.

I didn’t know what to expect, really.  I had this idea in my head that we’d all go into a room and they’d ask us a few questions.  I’d tell them that being there was a hardship, that I was biased and then they’d send me home by lunch.

It didn’t quite happen that way, and in the end, I left feeling happy, highly relieved, feeling a bit rejected, and humbled.  Jury Duty CAN do that, and they have a system in place that works a bit better than I’d imagined.

I had no idea that during the Jury selection process the courtroom would be full of people (mostly other potential jurors) and that the Defendant, the Defense and Prosecuting Attorneys would be there.  I guess I thought that only people who had passed some preliminary questioning made it into the courtroom. When I was being questioned, I also didn’t expect to feel so exposed.  I didn’t know that there are specific questions that are asked of each potential juror and that the potential jurors were then open to questioning by both the Defense and the Prosecution.  I had no idea that the charges of the crime committed would be read to us.  I certainly didn’t expect to feel any sort of emotional response to the whole process except irritation at being there.

There were lots of things I didn’t expect, most of all, I didn’t expect to feel a personal civic duty to be there after hearing the judge address us.  I went in with such a poor attitude, one of being highly inconvenienced, that when I left I felt both relieved but also like what I had done was not such an inconvenience after all.

I was in the first round of potential jurors to be called and subsequently dismissed.  I actually tried to come up with as compelling reasons as I could to make myself look like less than an ideal juror.  I told them that getting child care for my children and transportation from school was difficult.  I told them that events that happened years ago could influence my ability to judge the evidence clearly.  I told them that I knew a Prosecutor within that courthouse personally, knowing that the Defense would probably not be a fan of that information.  I told them all of these things because I really, really didn’t want to sit on a jury for the alleged crime.  I didn’t want to find someone to take care of my kids.  I didn’t want to be stuck in a court room all day, and I really didn’t want to feel like an life altering decision rested in part on my shoulders.

I wanted nothing more than to get dismissed.  Yet when I did get dismissed, I felt like I’d been rejected.

I definitely didn’t expect Jury Duty to be emotional.

Yet it was.  And I didn’t even DO anything.  I can’t imagine what it’s like to actually sit on a Jury.  And, I kind of want to now.  Just not right now.  I have too many things to do.

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  1. That is the exact situation I found myself in two years ago. I was hoping I would get dismissed but I was selected and it was a two day ordeal. It was somewhat of an ordeal to make arrangements for my kids and it was my first time leaving my youngest (who was one at the time) but I came out of it with a different attitude than when I went into it. I had a better understanding and appreciation of our judicial system and I truly felt that it was a honor to perform this civic duty. That being said, I hope that I don’t get summoned anytime soon. It wasn’t easy but it was somewhat rewarding.

  2. I don’t think I’ll ever be allowed since dru’s a lawyer.
    So I’ll keep watching lame TV programmes and pretend.

  3. I was on a jury once. It was for a short trial but it was a neat experience.

  4. You left out too many details. Did you have to tell them about your Mom? Did you mention Bjorn? Did they tell you why you didn’t make the cut? What was the crime?

    I’ve never been called. I assume it’s bc I have little kids?

    Fascinating. In a weird way.

  5. I’ve often wondered what it would be like to be a juror on a high profile case.

    I like your account of the process. I’ve never gone in either, due to having little children. Someday though… someday.

    Thanks for sharing this!

  6. Hi!! Long time, no visit!! Glad to see you again.

    I had jury duty not too long ago too and was all prepared to get out of it but got oddly stirred by the video they show. Still, it would have meant having my husband have to leave work … not exactly ideal. In the end, I ended up getting dismissed but I was able to serve on a drug case a few years back and it was really fascinating and interesting.

    Visiting from Mama Kats

  7. I’ve always wanted to sit on a jury, and I have never been called. I’m somewhat jealous of you for even being dismissed.

  8. I just got a summons for jury duty for the first time and I’m really annoyed they didn’t give me an exemption (since, you know, I have 3 kids under 4). So I guess I am going to bring them when I have to report, since no one can watch them. I’m hoping to get dismissed very quickly. I am so not interested in being a juror. It sounds like it was an interesting experience, though.

  9. I actually just got a letter yesterday from our court that stated while it wasn’t a “summons”, I am requested to fill out this form as a potential juror. Like you, I’m just too busy to be a juror now! My husband and I both work full time, and getting the childcare issue taken care of would just be a pain!

  10. I have somehow ditched jury duty my entire life as well. And now with the newborn I guess I get a pass for another five years…

  11. I have never been! I kind of want to, but worry about hearing the details of things that have happened in my town. Does that make any sense?